Attracting unhealthy relationships

I keep Attracting Unhealthy Relationships!

WHAT DOES MY ANGER HAVE TO DO WITH IT?

Yes, Anger is energy! What we know about energy is that it never dies, but can only be transformed. So what does this have to do with who we are attracted to and who is attracted to us? Think of your anger energy as a hard drive that has saved and recorded all your emotional pain and wounds from the time you were a child. However, as children we may not have had the tools or wisdom to solve emotional problems effectively, so we stored these memories till an opportune time.

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My Partner / Loved One Insists they don’t have an Anger problem!

MY PARTNER/FAMILY MEMBER INSISTS THEY DON’T HAVE AN ANGER PROBLEM!
Many people call in for Anger Management services requesting it for their partners or their loved ones. The first thing we ask them is whether or not the person they are calling on behalf of is willing to attend or are they the ones insisting they attend. It’s important that anyone attending any type of treatment be a willing participant. When family members force their loved ones to attend such life altering treatment, it can be sabotaged because the person attending is coming against their will.

We understand that many times family members feel helpless

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Why Do I become an Angry A-Hole when I drink Alcohol!

Many people regrettably find out their Anger is exacerbated after they consume alcohol. Often referred to as the mean drunk, they find themselves doing and saying things they would normally never say if they were sober. Such people are puzzled upon sobering up to find out they could behave in such a manner. Why it is some people can drink and it have no negative effect on their behavior, while others literally present as a type of Jekyll and Hyde.

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When Anger is used to instill Fear and Control

Everyone has had that boss or manager that thought they were untouchable and used their power to degrade or instill fear in employees. “Get back to work” they say and everyone scrambles to get back to their position. What about the mother who says “Wait till your dad comes home, then you’ll see!” The unfortunate truth is that fear works! When we use anger as a way to instill fear and control, others cower and often give into our demands.

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What is Normal or Not when my Child is Angry

Why do children get angry?
Why is it important to manage anger?
What can a parent do?
Anger v behavioural issues.
When to call for help?
It is natural for children to display anger, as it is a natural emotion, and they should learn to control it as they grow older. Not all children learn to cope with anger, and they may continue to have tantrums, remain angry for long periods of time and not let it go, or it may escalate with age; this can be an indication that there may be an underlying condition that requires investigation, and it is best to refer your concerns to your medical practitioner.

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Jealousy and Anger in Relationships

Do you ever get the desire to check your spouse’s telephone log? Do you ever feel the need to examine their instant messages or email in-box? Maybe there are messages from somebody you don’t know, or perhaps you feel that somebody you do know is having an interest- possibly on the verge of wooing your spouse – and you simply have to determine or prove that right?

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